GO AHEAD - POST AN INCIDENT REPORT - PLEASE HELP OTHER WOMEN WHO DATE ONLINE!

You do not need to be a member to post a report. Please be fair and honest. Your report may help save others from a similar situation. The only way escorts can increase safety is to rely upon each other.

Post a Report Form - This system allows anyone (not just paying members) to post a report. The The Dating BLACKLIST information is searchable, and makes the data much easier to find than putting it in a forum thread.

Incident Date     Offender Name       Special Note: Please DO NOT put your address if it is the location of the incident! You really don't want to submit YOUR own address!     Incident Address     Incident City     Incident State   Alaska Alabama Arkansas Arizona California Canada Colorado Connecticut District of Columbia Delaware Florida Georgia Hawaii Iowa Idaho Illinois Indiana Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Massachusetts Maryland Maine Michigan Minnesota Missouri Mississippi Montana North Carolina North Dakota Nebraska New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico Nevada New York Ohio Oklahoma Oregon Pennsylvania Rhode Island South Carolina South Dakota Tennessee Texas Utah Virginia Vermont Washington Wisconsin West Virginia Wyoming     Offender Phone     Other Phone     Mobile Phone     Email       I have seen this person   Yes No   If you have not seen this person before, please skip the physical descriptions.     Category   Aggressive Con Artist Didn’t use actual Photos Doesn’t understand the word NO Drug Problem Emotional Disorder Ex Wife Problem Excessive Drinking Financially Unstable Flaky Fraud Gambling Problem Game Player Gold Digger Hostile Lied about age Lied about kids Loser Manic Depressive/Bipolar No Job Not Respectful Photos more than 10 years old Physically Abusive Serial Dater STD present They were married To physical too soon Verbally Abusive Was Married Withheld important information     Incident Description       Gender   N/A Male Female   Hair   N/A Brown Blonde Red Black Gray Streaked   Hair Style   N/A Straight and long Straight and short Curly and long Curly and short Bald Mullet   Long Sideburns     Goatee     Moustache     Full Beard       Eyes   N/A Blue Green Brown Hazel Gray   Skin   N/A White Black Brown Yellow   Ethnicity   N/A Caucasian African Middle Eastern Asian Other     Height   N/A 5 ft 2 in - 5 ft 4 in 5 ft 4 in - 5 ft 6 in 5 ft 6 in - 5 ft 8 in 5 ft 8 in - 5 ft 10 in 5 ft 10 in - 6 ft 6 ft - 6 ft 2 in 6 ft 2 in - 6 ft 4 in Over 6 ft 4 in   Weight   N/A 120-140 lbs 140-160 lbs 160-180 lbs 180-200 lbs 200-220 lbs 220-240 lbs over 240 lbs Cannot estimate   Build   N/A Slim Muscular Stocky Overweight   Age   N/A 18 - 20 years old 20 - 25 years old 25 - 30 years old 30 - 35 years old 35 - 40 years old 40 - 45 years old 45 - 50 years old 50 - 55 years old 55 - 60 years old 60 - 65 years old Older than 65 years old   Other Identifying Marks       Stated Occupation     Vehicle Description       Show your Screen Name     Your Email         Met Online?     Date Met     Where did you meet offline?   Home Club Other   Where did you meet online?   Chat Room Website Other   URL of where you met     Name of website where you met     IM Address       I hereby certify that the information about to be submitted is true.

DISCLAIMER — Potential Problems and how we address them
As information comes in it will be posted in the various sections (latest news will be posted on the front page to achieve maximum impact) after vetting for accuracy as much as possible.

This vetting will be crucial, and we have revised our policy on this. We will only accept reports for publication from valid e-mail addresses which we will check for accuracy. Anonymous post may be accepted but will be placed in a seperate category, and will be edited to remove any identifying information.

Where an offending individual is identified this information will again be checked and if accurate be made available. However we of course do need to take into account the laws of libel, so will abide by these laws at all times.

As the site develops we will learn along the way, however please be assured our intentions are honorable, and we will not tolerate malicious attempts to discredit individuals. People who attempt this and are discovered will be "outed" publicly.

We receive lots of positive e-mail about The Dating BlackList each week. However we continue to need you to put your time and effort into making this resource site succeed; this site can not help others in the dating community without your input.